Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
For a man to use the word
of divorce (talaaq) lightly is a grave mistake, which may lead to the
disintegration of his family when he does not want that. Allaah has not
prescribed divorce to be something that is taken lightly or spoken
carelessly, or to play with women’s feelings, rather He has prescribed it
for the man to use it when he wants to end a marriage if there is a reason
to do so.
What the man must do is
guard his tongue and restrain himself from using the word of divorce in
matters where divorce is not warranted, so that he will not regret it when
it is too late for regret.
Secondly:
Divorce at times of anger
may or may not count as such. This has been discussed in the answer to
question no. 45174.
To sum up, in the event of
anger in which a person is out of his right mind, divorce does not count as
such, as is also the case with anger in which a man is not in control of
himself because an argument or fight has gone on too long.
The man is the one who can
recognize the degree of anger that he reached, and can decide whether
divorce counts as such or not.
Thirdly:
Issuing a threefold divorce
in one go, such as saying “You are thrice divorced” or “I will divorce you
three times” counts as a single divorce according to the view favoured by a
number of scholars.
If your anger did not reach
the degree that your divorce did not count, then you have issued one divorce
in this case – if your wife went to school – and you may take her back so
long as her ‘iddah has not yet ended.
See the answer to question
no. 36580 for more
information.
And Allaah knows best.
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