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Monday, October 17, 2011

Women in Married Life

Woman in the Qur' -


Relationships based on worldly values can degenerate into baseness,
as often happens in marriage. When people's love and respect is
based on these values, they can lose these feelings quickly when
circumstances change. This is almost inevitable when love, respect,
and loyalty depend on one's beauty, wealth, health, job, or status,
for when these temporary and superficial characteristics disappear,
so will the other person's love. Someone who follows such criteria
will find no reason to continue to love and honor his or her spouse
when the basis for those values is lost.

Belief, fear and respect of Allah, and decency of character are
what make love, respect, and loyalty endure. Someone who loves his
or her spouse for their belief and character will, in married life,
be respectful, loyal, and decent. Losing one's youth, health, or
beauty will not affect the love and consideration among spouses
for each other, and neither will losing one's wealth or social status.
They will not cause trouble or discontent to the other person because
of their firm belief and fear and respect of Allah, whatever the
circumstances. Believers will always be gentle and compassionate,
as well as fair and tolerant, for they will consider this to be
a responsibility entrusted to them by Allah.

So close is the marital relationship that the Qur'an says of the
spouses: "They are clothing for you, and
you for them"
(Surat al-Baqara: 187). In this verse, Allah
reminds people that each spouse has equal responsibilities. The
word "clothing" stands for the responsibility of guarding and protecting
one another and also suggests that men and women have complementary

Another verse states the importance of love and compassion in marriage:
"Among His Signs is that He created spouses
for you of your own kind, so that you might find tranquillity in
them. And He has placed affection and compassion between you. There
are certainly Signs in that for people who reflect"
ar-Rum: 21). Believers consider their spouses to be gifts that Allah
has given into their care, and therefore value one another greatly.
They show affection and compassion when their spouse makes a mistake
or falls short in some way, and know that behaving according to
the Qur'an will help them overcome all difficulties and solve their
problems. As a result, marriage helps both spouses find contentment
and peace.

With the phrase "you have been intimate with
one another"
(Surat an-Nisa': 21), Allah proclaims the closeness
and intimacy of married life. The secret of this closeness, intimacy,
and valuing of each other is their intention to create an everlasting
togetherness that will extend into the Hereafter. True loyalty and
love requires this attitude. Since their love is neither selfish
nor temporary, but intended to be everlasting, they are completely
loyal, close, honest, and intimate with one another.

As we have seen, the Qur'an's morality forms the basis for a marital
relationship based on togetherness, one in which both parties fear
and respect Allah and follow His morality. In such a relationship,
each person's loyalty, faithfulness, love, sincerity, tolerance,
and modesty complement and support the other person. Such a marriage
is stable and long-lasting. The marriages of people without these
qualities, on the other hand, are short-lived.

For these reasons, Islam considers marriage to be a comfort for
women, for in it she experiences love, respect, loyalty, and faithfulness
in the best possible way. She is always respected, valued, and honored.
The absence of any pride, superiority complex, and lies enables
her to find peace and contentment.

Our Prophet (saas) became a great example for
all Muslims in this respect. Allah refers to this reality in the
following verse: "You have an excellent model
in the Messenger of Allah, for all who put their hope in Allah and
the Last Day and remember Allah much"
(Surat al-Ahzab: 21).
He frequently stated the importance and value of Muslim women, as
in this hadith: "The whole world is a provision, and the best object
of benefit of the world is the pious woman."16

In another hadith, he said: "The most perfect
believer in faith is the one who is the best of them in good conduct.
The best of you is the one among you who treats his wife the best."

His impeccable behavior is a role model for all Muslims. In one
hadith, he points out the importance of treating married women in
the nicest way:

"The best of you is the one who is the best
to his wives, and I am the best of you toward my wives."

He reminded everyone in a hadith of the importance
of valuing women: "Act kindly toward women."19

Our Prophet (saas), who is a role model for all
believers, always treated his wives gently, nicely, and with compassion.
Aisha said: "I have never seen a man who was more compassionate
to his family members than Muhammad (saas)."

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